“The difference between passion and addiction is that between a divine spark and a flame that incinerates.”
What if everything you presuppose about addiction is wrong?
Enter Gabor Maté.
World renowned lecturer, physician and bestselling author, today’s guest is a highly distinguished, in demand and at times controversial authority with a wealth of expertise on a range of topics that span addiction, stress and childhood development.
With over twelve years of first hand experience working up close and personal on Vancouver’s skid row with patients severely challenged by hard core drug addictions, mental illness and HIV, Dr. Maté has cultivated a powerful yet eminently commonsensical perspective on this devastating affliction that contravenes conventional medical dogma. A perspective that begins with a single edict:
Addiction is not a choice.
Moreover, addiction has little to do with illicit substances. It’s just not about drugs. Or gambling, or shopping, or porn or whatever behavior happens to, in the words of Dr. Maté, incinerate the lives of millions.
Instead, addiction is about the emotional pain behind the behavior. And healing is about confronting the past and untangling the circumstances that drive the individual to self-medicate in maddening defiance of all reason and logic.
Based on cutting edge science, case studies and a wealth of personal experience, Dr. Maté concludes that addiction is a predisposition programmed in early years — an infestation that lurks miles beyond choice. A disease rooted neither in genetics nor free will but rather in environmental factors that hard wire brain neurochemistry during formative childhood development. Accordingly, those that suffer should not be shamed or criminalized, but instead treated in the same way we approach anyone suffering from cancer or an autoimmune disease — not with blame but rather with compassion, sympathy and medical intervention.
As an author, Dr. Maté has written extensively on the subjects of addiction, early childhood development & trauma, attention deficit disorder, and the relationship between stress and disease. His most recent award-winning book, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction (a #1 bestseller in Canada) mixes personal stories with science to present a radical re-envisioning of addiction not as a discrete phenomenon confined to an unfortunate or weak-willed few, but as a continuum that runs throughout (and perhaps underpins) our society at large; not a medical “condition” distinct from the lives it affects, but rather the result of a complex interplay among personal history, emotional, and neurological development, brain chemistry, and the drugs (and behaviors) of addiction.
In other words, it’s complicated. There is no miracle cure. There is no quick fix. But hope breathes in compassion and self-understanding — the first key to promoting healing and wellness,
Dr. Maté’s work — and this book in particular — have been absolutely revelatory in helping me better understand myself, my personal history with addiction, and my ever evolving quest for greater well being. He changed my life. And I truly believe his message holds the power to improve the lives of anyone personally or tangentially impacted by addiction. And let’s face it — in this day and age that includes almost everyone.
It was a unique honor to hold space with this compelling, paradigm breaking man. A conversation that begins with a survey of his life and labors but then subtly shifts — the verbal fulcrum slowly sliding until his focused insight was quite unsuspectedly yet keenly turned on me. The interviewer as patient; my own private session writ large.
Topics covered include:
- the misplaced criminalization of addiction
- the denial of trauma in addiction
- addiction as a social issue
- the shame & stigma that drives addiction
- chemical effects & psychological defenses
- early adaptations & sources of pathology/dysfunction
- the impact of childhood experiences on behavior
- commitment to the process & the inevitable payoff
- self-knowledge vs. experiential knowledge
- acknowledgment of suffering
- the true nature of the human condition
Question: How can you treat those who suffer from addiction with more compassion?
I look forward to hearing all about it in the comments section below.
I love this conversation and hope it leaves you rethinking assumptions about human behavior and perhaps even your own behavioral compulsions.
Peace + Plants,
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Background, Context & Reference:
- Buddhism: The Six Realms
- The Buddhist concept of The Hungry Ghost
- HuffPost: Taking in All the Pain of What They Witness by Gabor Maté
- Spirituality & Health: Gabor Maté: Why We’re A Culture of Addicts
- Westender: Disconnecting From Digital Addiction by Kelsey Klassen
- HuffPost: The Likely Cause of Addiction Has Been Discovered, and It Is Not What You Think by Johann Hari
- CBSNews: A Cry For Compassion In Treating Addiction by Parvati Shallow
- Soulscode: Andre Agassi and Dr. Gabor Maté “Open” Up
- Briarpatch: Gabor Maté: How Capitalism Makes Us Sick by Ryan Meili
- Briarpatch: Gabor Maté: On Storytelling, Health, and The Ruling Class by Ryan Meili
- DrGaborMate: Why Can’t Johnny Adapt? by Clare Day
- DrGaborMate: Autism Is The Child Of Social Disconnection by Clare Day
- DrGaborMate: Who Should Really Take a Time-Out by Clare Day
- YouTube: Dr. Gabor Maté:Who We Are When We Are Not Addicted: The Possible Human
- YouTube: Dr. Gabor Maté:Attachment, Disease, and Addiction
- TedXRio+20: Dr. Gabor Maté:The Power of Addiction and The Addiction of Power
- NYTimes: Free Diver Natalia Molchanova Descends for Fun, Then Vanishes by Adam Skolnick
- EcoBuddhism: Gabor Maté: In The Realm Of The Hungry Ghosts
- Truth-Out: Capitalism Makes Us Crazy: Dr. Gabor Maté on Illness and Addiction by Kyung Jin Lee
- Forbes: 23andMe’s Triumph — And The Long Road Ahead
- Forbes: 23andMe Wins a Second Life: New Business Plan Scores $115 Million From Investors
- Forbes: Before Google, The Wojcicki Girls Learned From Mom
Notable People Discussed in today’s podcast:
- Eckhart Tolle: German author, public speaker
- Henry David Thoreau: American author, philosopher
- Thomas Merton: catholic monk, spiritual teacher
Books You Really Should Read:
- Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It* by Dr. Gabor Maté
- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction* by Dr. Gabor Maté
- When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection* by Dr. Gabor Maté
- Hold On To Your Kids* by Dr. Gabor Maté & Gordon Neufeld
- The Inferno* by Dante Alighieri
- Life* by Keith Richards
- The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying: The Spiritual Classic & International Bestseller: 20th Anniversary Edition* by Sogyal Rinpoche
Production & sound design by Dean Menta. Music by Tyler Piatt. Additional production by Chris Swan. Graphic art by Shawn Patterson.
*Disclosure:Books and products denoted with an asterisk are hyperlinked to an affiliate program. We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.
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